The Hen House Community Group
This Group is for Hens only. A place where we can share and flock together:) May friendships grow here.
Morning Ladies
Yesterday was tough, pain wise. Today is okay, but emotionally I'm not doing so great. Wednesday night I got a call from my son asking me if it was true that my brother in law, Don was going into pallitive care. He said my brother (who lives with me) phoned him and told him so. I just left my house and my brother was there and didn't even talk to me. I was in the pet store and I just broke down and started to cry. No one is talking to me again, just like old times. I phoned my mother and came unglued with greif. My mother said it wasn't her place to tell me any news and I said my sister has too much on her plate to have to call everyone to pass on bad news and if she knew, why wasn't she passing it on. My mother said she wouldn't. I'm mad at my brother for talking to my son while he was working but won't talk to me. I'm mad at the cowards that they always are. I'm mad because my brother is an alcoholic and over dramatizes everything and says stupid things. I'm mad because my sister cocoons instead of asking for my help and I keep offering it. I'm mad because I'm grieving and I can't do anything to stop this. I'm mad because the doctors really haven't given a diagnosis yet and we don't know how bad, but we do know it is bad. I'm mad because Don is such a wonderful person and when I get near him, he acts like nothing is wrong. I'm just want to hold him tight and let him know how important he is.
Craziness.
Love to you all.
Yesterday was tough, pain wise. Today is okay, but emotionally I'm not doing so great. Wednesday night I got a call from my son asking me if it was true that my brother in law, Don was going into pallitive care. He said my brother (who lives with me) phoned him and told him so. I just left my house and my brother was there and didn't even talk to me. I was in the pet store and I just broke down and started to cry. No one is talking to me again, just like old times. I phoned my mother and came unglued with greif. My mother said it wasn't her place to tell me any news and I said my sister has too much on her plate to have to call everyone to pass on bad news and if she knew, why wasn't she passing it on. My mother said she wouldn't. I'm mad at my brother for talking to my son while he was working but won't talk to me. I'm mad at the cowards that they always are. I'm mad because my brother is an alcoholic and over dramatizes everything and says stupid things. I'm mad because my sister cocoons instead of asking for my help and I keep offering it. I'm mad because I'm grieving and I can't do anything to stop this. I'm mad because the doctors really haven't given a diagnosis yet and we don't know how bad, but we do know it is bad. I'm mad because Don is such a wonderful person and when I get near him, he acts like nothing is wrong. I'm just want to hold him tight and let him know how important he is.
Craziness.
Love to you all.
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89FNo energy, just going to do whatever. Sandra, It's hard to move at a certain time in life. You've been in your home forever, at least you'll be able to travel to the beach and enjoy. Oh, we did hear Boris Johnson's tenure ended due to a series of ethics scandals, accusations of dishonesty and a final collapse of government support that forced his recognation. What he didn't do like the...
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88FWhat I do like is early morning clouds and then they disappear and the sun comes out. That was it's cooler in the morning. I'm sitting here looking out the window at the hummingbird with the river and dike as a back drop. It's hard to invision ever leaving but I'm also a realist with aging, especially when the luncheon we had with thirty former classmates on Monday. Sandra, we get news of...
I am off to Jackson to take my mom to the Dr. Today. It's going to be a really long Dr. Apt. I really dread it.
Wishing everyone a good day.
Hugs
dixie, safe trip. hope the appt isn't too dreadful.
we really got a big snowfall for here. i've been taking some photos from my balcony. it's really pretty and i just had a cardinal come visit. they're so beautiful. it's going to be sunny and a bit warmer, so we'll be in that freeze/thaw cycle.
no plans here other than staying warm. i'll post a couple of photos.
big hugs!
i think i have a new form of the bug that won't die. i woke up with a very sore throat and clogged sinuses.
Family ? I'd be quite happy to move away if i could ! (providing i had my son and dh)
Make the time with your brother in law count, this is your priority, the dysfunctional stuff can wait, it will keep for when you feel ready to deal with it.
Dix, sending you lots of energy hugs. Let us know how it went for your mum and for you baby sitting in a clinic.
seren, snow is beautiful when it first settles, i love trees when they are covered in snow.
My new washing machine turned up, guess what i'm doing today... load after load after load of laundry!!
hugs
haven't seen hippy in a while?
Emp yeah! For new washing machine!!
I left the baby here with dh today, glad I did because we were there 5 hrs. Mom's apt was not good. He has given her nitroglycerin pills to keep on hand. Scary thought, although he said he thinks her lover will go before her heart. She desperately needs to lose weight !
Tired, was a long day. We did do a little shopping afterwards. Fun craft stuff!:)
Have a peaceful evening everyone.
Hugs