2013 is going to be a good year. It's moving on time. I found this on pinterest. It helps me in my decision to move forward....

The first to apologize is the bravest.
The first to forgive is the strongest.
The first to forget is the happiest.

I'm not brave so no apologies here..... I forgave my ED for the sole reason that I would not have to carry all this around with me.... and now I'm gonna forget all of it so I can be happy.

I agree. No apologies here either not because I lack the bravery to do it but because I dont apologise for stuff I didnt do! All the rest works for me though. Lets all support each other on moving on and enjoying the New Year and let Karma do its work.

Sorry...wont apologize for things I did not do...or made up stories of what I did or did not do or unknown untold things...wont apologize for things I was not responsible for...on the other hand I will be the first to apologize when I know I have done something wrong or if something I did really hurt someone and I was unaware and they tell me. Therefore I am brave...............

When forgiveness is necessary in a reciprocal relationship...then I will forgive...I will not forgive when forgiveness is a one way street and there is no remorse or repentance from others...but since I can and know how to forgive within boundaries...Therefore I am the strongest............

I will never forget because in doing so I will be doomed to repeat past failures and will not know how to create again the good things I have done...remembering is a good thing therefore I will probably not be the happiest...but I will walk in truth and reality.............

And there is a sense of balance and confidence when you walk in reality...not ignorance or forgetfulness

It is a good year to move on...and recognize ourselves for who we are and can become...moving forward whatever the outcome.........

AllK

Yes, it's a good year to move on

AK you said it much better than me. Well done!

Yjis maybe something I need to learn as I am always the front runner in any arguement at home or on DS. I am the sound of reason. I don't like confrrontation nor do I like discord. I like harmoney and peace. BUT always the first to say "sorry" weather I did anything or not.