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Andelene 02/14/2013

I never received any Valentine's day gifts, because my late husband regarded it as a waste of money. But to me such a gift is a token of appreciation, and saying "You are special to me". So yesterday I bought myself a box of chocolates and a beautiful valentine's day card, and I wrote a very special message to myself, inside the card. It really made me feel very special! My lovely card is still on top of the TV stand, and every time I look at it, I feel really good!

peacefulnature 02/14/2013

Good for you, Andelene! You are taking good care of yourself and honoring your uniqueness. I'm glad you had a Happy Valentine's Day - hugs to you!

deleted_user 02/15/2013

We deserve it! And self-love is always reciprocated!

deleted_user 02/15/2013

Good for you girl...we deserve to treat ourselves!!!

MsBlank1 02/15/2013

Amen!!!
It's nice to treat ourselves to such induldgences from time to time. My ex just hated to shop (unless it was a tool or piece of equipment for himself).
Since my ex was such a putz.....I always bought my own birthday, Christmas, anniversary, etc gifts and so it's second nature.
I quit smoking 10 months ago (today) and with the money I have saved, I treat myself at milestone or whenever the mood hits me.
Thanks for setting an example of how we should love and induldge ourselves....especially for special occassions.

LindaJean 02/15/2013

Ms.B - I just love that little kitten.

Andele - that is such a good idea - good for you!

deleted_user 02/15/2013

How fun! And what a great idea!

explorer675 02/15/2013

nice thought treat yourself!!!

explorer675 02/15/2013

ps when dh was in. the army his Sargent was soooo cheap he picked up the tree free from the tree lots a day after.

deleted_user 02/16/2013

Good for you Andalene and don't just restrict it to Valentine's Day....Do it often and remember it made you feel special because you are special.

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