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Andelene 02/12/2013

I have 3 children, and my older daughter (middle child) really gave me a hard time when she was growing up. She is my only child who were often in fights at school, who often challenged authority by doing things JUST outside the rules, started smoking at a young age, tried to run away from home and insisted on experimenting with alcohol at age 13. Today she is a very responsible single mom, and a police reservist in her spare time. But her little girl, (9 years old), has inherited her mom's "tricks" in a double portion. Today my daughter is getting her own back, only double! I love this! Their interactions really fill my life with smiles and laughter! The wheel finally turned!

deleted_user 02/12/2013

So true...I am seeing this now myself with my ED, of course our children would never admit it is karma in action :-)!!

deleted_user 02/12/2013

"What goes around comes around" or "as you sow, so shall you reap" is the basic understanding of how karma, the law of cause and effect, works……. great to see it in action sometimes.

MsBlank1 02/12/2013

My oldest was a holy terror since she was 3 (she is now 28?) and more so than your middle daughter. Mine ran me ragged past the point of exhaustion, humiliation, and rage. She is estranged for the past 3 years and pulled both her daughters from my life. She doesn't have custody of either her 9 year old and her 5 year old....the fathers and their families are raising the girls.....they too keep them from me and I don't have enough money to fight them.
I was hoping my daughter would get a taste of her own medicine in raising kids.......but that ain't happening *sigh......and she is still running amuck with her 70 year old sugar daddy.

MsBlank1 02/12/2013

p.s. the sugar daddy is not my ex......it's her on again off again boy toy!

explorer675 02/12/2013

miz b is that a typo you put down 70

peacefulnature 02/12/2013

A 70 year old boy toy?!!! Hahaha... probably less of a "toy" but more of a "wallet."

charlottemaria 02/12/2013

We call.them sugar daddies lol
My youngest EO shamed us with her behavior but we hung in and tried to help her for too long. Now she dumped us and her eldest daughter is up to her mother's tricks BUT guess what? She kicked her daughter out and acts all shocked about the behavior that GD learned from her.
Heartless hypocrite!!!

explorer675 02/12/2013

sorry Charlotte maybe your eo is too self involved to see her own behavior. I know mine has very little self awareness or she just lies who knows

charlottemaria 02/12/2013

You are right explorer. Who knows what goes on in their screwed up heads.

MsBlank1 02/12/2013

You read it write....no typo. My daughter has her a sugar daddy. I can hardly wait until she becomes too old for him and he moves onto someone younger. However, I can give a rats patuty who she is with. I stopped caring 3 years ago when she slammed the door when she made her final exit out of my life.

MsBlank1 02/12/2013

oy....you read it right not write.....now that was a typo LOL

charlottemaria 02/13/2013

Sometimes I think this outrageous behavior is just done in an attempt to.shock.or embarrass us.
Personally I am like Ms Blank I don't give a rat's patuti.or rats arse as we in NZ o delicately.put it lol

deleted_user 02/13/2013

I love watching Karma in action. It does bring a smile to my face.

HS

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