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jancam 10/15/2015

Has postponed her surgery indefi itely.
( they set a tentative date for mid November..IDK why..
We said indefinitely.

Because of the location of the aneurism they're reccomending the craniotomy..
The effects can be.. catastrophic.
..As would a stroke in that aneurism..
Hence.. she has stated she would not want medical care should she have a stroke in that aneurism.

..these are the decisions I would make if facing them for myself.but, I feel like I'm dying of heartbreak.
For her, for me and her brother, stepdad..
And her five year old son.

I'm sorry I'm uncommunicative lately..
I cannot find the words

serenityha 10/15/2015

jc, understandable that you can't find the words when you're trying to wrap your had and deal with all of this.
hoping and praying for each of you to find some comfort and relief which is no small order in such a tough situation.
love you here or not and always have you all in my heart. xoxo

mike12358 10/15/2015

So so sorry....

I think of you and your family daily

Sending everything positive I have

Peace n Hugs
Michael

Autumn14 10/15/2015

I'm so very sorry for all you are going through. Praying for your family

min63 10/15/2015

oh darling i cannot even image being in your shoes , i could not find the words either im so sorry wish i could do more i pray all the time for you guys tons of hugs love you minnie

MoonDancingNana 10/15/2015

Words not needed. Understand. Sending all that I possess.......

Loving Hugs,
Joanne

irocket 10/15/2015

JC wish I had those magic words of comfort too, right along with the answers. I carry all of you in my thoughts, heart and prayers each day. I understand why you aren't here, but am always here for you.

Love you and hope you find moments of comfort

Toni

e4now 10/15/2015

im sorry JC so very sorry shooting comfort strength love and understanding your way.

hippyone 10/15/2015

Jaimie is an amazing woman, as are you Janis. My heart breaks with you and for Jaimie and her family.

All my love to you dear friend.

hurtingangel 10/16/2015

JC, I too wish I had some profound words of wisdom or comfort, but both escape me. What doesn't though is the fact that there isn't a day goes by when you both are not in my heart, thoughts and prayers. I am so grateful that you stopped by to share how you were feeling & the update on jamie. Much love to you.

Love & God bless
Lisa

Seekn1 10/16/2015

Breaks my heart JC,... "Jaimie is an amazing Woman" as is her Mum, n the whole Family,....

Pls try n Keep Hopes up, sounds silly,... But,.... Hopes can be Amazing ,...

Have sent a PM, n sending all the Hope and Wishes Up.,. I, can muster for, All ,..... esp our dear Jaimie,....

Love ,.. ((((Huhs)))) ,... n with You guys,... my Sweet Friend. xoxox

fayre 10/16/2015

JC,

My heart breaks for you and Jaimie and her son, for your whole family actually. No need to apologize for not being here with us. We totally understand. Praying things get better honey. I'll keep praying for a miracle.

Love and hugs,

Xoxoxoxo

Mary Ellen

gr8ful2b 10/17/2015

I'm lifting you, Jaimie and the family up in prayer. I don't know what else to say...........

e4now 10/19/2015

thinking of you both wishes for diminished pain for all involved. love you JC

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