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Do you ever..

jancam
jancam
Have one or two pleasant exchanges going on online..

While.. in between..
Sobbing to husband ( or anyone) on the phone
about how sad it is that it's so lovely outside ..
But, you're on the couch AGAIN
Actually jealous of folks going to breakfast
Or..ya know.. living in some way..

..then go back to your conversation about..
Oh, say..
Fantasy hangouts with online Buds?

Then.. husband comes home and gives you a tearful hug ( your tears.. not his:-)

.. and you go back online and start a " have you ever " post?
KNOWING. .. SOMEONE here HAS ever... WHATever you're going to throw out there...
'Cause..
We just click like that :-) :-)

I'm a ramblin' fool lately.
I appreciate y'all humoring me.

HUGZ
RJRelaxing
RJRelaxing
Ah, rambling fools can be the best writers sometimes. Sometimes a good cry helpful.

Let's see... "Do you ever..." post. Do you ever wish you could go back in time to a happier place, or where you could change something......?
jancam
jancam
But, of course, RJ

If you only got to pick one..
What moment would you change?

Hugz
serenityha
serenityha
jc, a resounding YES! i just got off the phone with a bestie who's still in nyc. we talked for hours and we can cover every subject in the world.i wish i could be there so badly.

it's a lovely day here and the curtains are closed. i'm tired and tired....

sometimes it's better just to hit send than re-think.
Group Founderirocket
irocket
Something like that! I can get frustrated with someone saying they're bored because they only did xyz that day when i'm lucky if I did it in the past 3 years.

I need the fantasy sometimes or I'd wither.

You need to allow yourself those tears it can be a rotten world we live in. I can crave who I was with every core of my being. I can go in the hole and feel I don't have any purpose at all. Then some day say enough of this and go back to that journal of gratitude, because that hole doesn't have much purpose either.

Maybe you're rambling because you have something to say :)
jancam
jancam
A resounding YES right back, J !! Sometimes I think that rethink before sending..
And then deleting instead..
Could be the end of me some day.
I'm glad you're tired, tired, tired WITH us.

I HEAR THAT, Toni !!!!!
My family knows...
I can be sympathetic to their aches and pains ( they used to think they couldn't mention them because of my situation).
I can be... to a somewhat limited degree..sympathetic to their disappointments in life..
Aww.. I'm sorry you were too late trying to get those concert tickets " .........
Once.

BUT...
My relatively healthy and fit family...
DO NO TELL ME
You're " bored "
..." There's " nothing to do ".........
.......
......
I WILL have somethin' to say to that.

I'm so grateful for all of you who " get " it.
For each of you that battles your way out of the hole again and again..

OK..I'm getting all touchy-feely now

Cowboy up, peoples..
Gotta keep roll in out..:-)

Love yas
Group Founderirocket
irocket
oh my gosh i haven' heard cowboy up in ages! so glad you're back in the saddle again JC and going to keep you there if i gotta hog tie ya! ;)