The Cheaters Community Group
Hard to find a support group for the ones who did the cheating..... If you are sorry for your mistakes, want to be a better partner/person and can't find anyone to accept your apologies, we will here!
In every serious relationship I've had, I've cheated. This last one I was engaged and my ex fiancé found out. I didn't go thru with having sex with another man but the intent was there. I don't know if I can change. I want to but my track record speaks for itself. I don't know whether to fight for it and do the work of rebuilding trust or just leave him alone. We live together but sleep in separate rooms.
For yourself, if change is what you want, it would be a good idea to find a therapist who may help you figure out how you ended up like this.
Trauma and sins of the past back to childhood even are usually part of why you haven't developed in certain areas.