Hard to find a support group for the ones who did the cheating..... If you are sorry for your mistakes, want to be a better partner/person and can't find anyone to accept your apologies, we will here!
When I was married I had more than one affair. My husband was good to me and most of his negative actions came from my cheating. For some reason I was afraid to totally depend on him or trust him completely. I guess partially because of my past. But I had options. This guy helped get me into therapy but I didn't follow through with it. We divorced but we were still seeing each other. This man really cares about me. But yesterday he said he was going to start dating. All I feel is dumb. That couldve been me. It should've been. I'm not a sex addict or bad person. Ive finished school finally and I'm mostly where I want to be. And he's doing good too. We would've been great. So cautionary tale: if you are cheating, stop! Its not worth it. Now all I have are regrets.