The Cheaters Community Group
Hard to find a support group for the ones who did the cheating..... If you are sorry for your mistakes, want to be a better partner/person and can't find anyone to accept your apologies, we will here!
Hey everyone,
First time post as well as first time seeking help.
Like everyone seeking support on here my relationship with my now ex partner has issues that need attending to which is what brings me here.
It is hard for me to put into words not only my emotions but just admitting to the wrong I have done,
Previously in our relationship I had made the terrible mistake of emotionaly cheating on my partner the reasons for which do not matter as I have taken soul responsibility for my actions and the consequences, we attempted to work things out (this only seemed to be me trying to make up for what I had done and being constantly abused and resented for what I had done). Recently I found myself trying to start a conversation that obviously presented as having a deeper meaning than what I was actually saying, after discovering these messages my then partner decided it would be better to break up(I don’t blame her, these events also took place earlier today), shortly after I found myself not only extremely sad but disappointed not only in myself but in the fact that I could hurt her again! I know she means the world to me which is ironic and contradicting after I have hurt her emotionally so many times. I’m not entirely sure what I’m asking or what I am hoping to get out of this but all advice and help is greatly appreciated.
Having worth because of your character can not be taken away because it is controlled by your moral choices.
Deriving your self esteem by external factors such as wealth, looks, compliments, and attention allows you to be easily manipulated by external forces and people.
If you can't change to the proper perspective you will always be susceptible to cheating and other destructive attention seeking behaviors that will plague your life and relationships.