Hard to find a support group for the ones who did the cheating..... If you are sorry for your mistakes, want to be a better partner/person and can't find anyone to accept your apologies, we will here!
I didnt know I was looking for this support group - until now - and it feels right to speak to people who may be able to help me! Thanks guys!
SO! My partner and I are the result of our 6month affair. We met at work, fell in love, he told the wife everything and after lots of heart breaking discussions between those two while I waited, he left her. They were on rocky ground for a few years, but he wouldnt have left if we had not had our affair. We have been together for more than a year, and I think we are doing fine. The only thing is, I am entirely consumed by guilt to the point where I believe I should be so badly punished that I have not enjoyed anything in months, I am physically and emotionally in pain all the time. Are any of you in the relationship you cheated for? Have any of you had to deal with the guilt or even better, have any of you got through guilt and come out the other side? Help! Any and all advice welcome.