My boyfriend and I have been together for two years, have been (sort of?) ttc for 4 months, and things keep going wrong within my fertile window. We both were sick last month and too exhausted to have sex before/during ovulation, but this month feels the same he's saying he's tired and needs to go to work soon. "Can we do it tomorrow?" But I know that tomorrow will come and nothing will happen. He is stressed and has a cold and I hate to push him but this kind of thing happens every month during my fertile window. Is it me? Does he not want to have a baby after saying a lot of times that he does? He'll say things like "our kid will be so talented and awesome" and I have trouble stopping myself from saying "what kid?!" because it's like...am I supposed to make one by myself? I can't be the only one, please let me know if you're also struggling to conceive because of lack of participation and what you've done to help your situation.