You said it best! They all need to know they actually can be loved and loved even when someone knows their circumstances. You sound like a blessing to one another and believe me you couldn't be more right when you say if we all had to register for all the things we do wrong and goof up a long the way shoot the registry would go all the way around the world and back. No bodys perfect, life is a journey we all do things that we wished we could take back or something but once we've done them we can only try to not do it wrong again and be our selves and hope we have at least one true friend or spouse who will still love us, respect us and see our heart and soul and not our mistake. It hurts me so bad that not one person will step up to the plate and help my son. He has a man that says I will stick by you brother and all that, but yet he won't let him stay there long enough to get a job and get on his feet. I'm sorry but if I truly knew someone was trying to make it and I did love them I wouldn't care what my neighbors thought. It wouldn't be for that long but darn I am the only one that he has to help and how much can I afford. I know it's not easy to get a job the way the system is set up it's so they will fail. They can't get a job so they can't afford to live they get told we don't want your kind here and they are treated like dirt. It's just a discrace. And then every time you turn on the news some dummy goes and hurts a kid and it wrecks it all again for these men that got with under age girls, consensually. It's plum ridiculous. I get on a role I have so much pent up. Sorry. Love each other and enjoy life, as time doesn't wait for anybody. God Bless you and him

You are so kind. Thank you for making these tears that have somehow come into my eyes. I waited so long to be loved, really and truly loved. My sweet husband died a while back. big C. Thought I'd die too and wanted to. But I had this awesome friend from church that was there for me when all the rest went back to their lives. It was strange. I'd lie awake night after night and just about the time I'd get the courage to stop my pain and sadness(for good), I'd get a phone call. It may be 2 or 3 in the morning, but the phone would ring. And my friend would say that he had awakened worried about me. Swear it's true. Soon enough one love led to another, and here we are. I always knew of his past. So what? I'm not tough enough or smart enough to be anybody's judge. Besides, the operative word is "past". I know a man who is always there beside me day or night. A man who is funny and sweet, gentle and good. We have a joke, no harm intended. I always say to him, I've had sex with you and I wasn't the least bit offended. Oh well, once again my friend, thank you and be blessed. You are all in my prayers.
Maxie a.k.a. hisrock

Hi Maxie, I love your name too, hisrock what a perfect name. Sounds like a fairy tale story but I know how true it is. It's really amazing when you feel like giving up and GOD sends us an angel. He has sent me many. I wish things were better on my end. You know I like your joke really it's cute. We have to laugh sometimes. There's been way too much crying. It's a darn shame your family can't see what you see in your rock. People can be so unkind, I honestly think they forget that they aren't perfect and someday they might want to be forgiven. I have my grandaughter here with me so I can't write to much right now but I will be in touch. You both take care and be happy. Much love rcmama

Thanks for the comeback my friend. Hope this finds you well and having a happy 4th. Me and my old deviant darlin' are. Gonna throw something on the grill later and have a cold beer or two.
Love ya,
Max..hisrock

I was recently blessed with finding my soulmate again after 20 plus years. 2 years ago he lived with a woman who cheated . He got drunk went online and happened upon a website that had minors,teens, and she saw when she got home.
She turned him in. He had his sentacing hearing yesterday and we feel like our world has collapsed. I am reaching out to anyone who has a partner that has to or is registered . We just got married and had not merged our households yet . He is on house arrest and only able to go to work ,home and to his probation officer. My head is spinning with all of the restrictions he has. I could use some help from people that have been there. I love this man and will stand by him regardless......