It sounded like you just wanted question to be answered, but you got yelled at for it. That can be frustrating. I'm not trying to take sides, but from my experience with my parents, they tend to yell at me and not answer my questions sometimes and want to me learn and figure things out on my own. Yet, that didn't really mean they hated me.

Again, I'm not taking sides, and it did stink that you were verbally attacked for a simple question, but what I'm trying to say is that maybe your mother still cares in her own way. I'm sorry that you felt unwell after speaking to her. Try seeing a doctor if your blurred vision gets worse. I hope this helped

Thank you some guy 092 I understand that she may have wanted me to figure it out for myself but this has been a difficult issue for me now for sometime and it’s hard for me to make decisions in relation to it.

I'm really sorry for being late to respond to this. Something came up and I accidentally forgot about this.

There is nothing wrong with an adult asking for help. We do it all of the time. No one should feel bad for simply wanting an answer to a question. No one should feel bad for asking for help.

Whatever the issue is, you could always search for answers on websites like Google and Bing. Then, read some of the web articles from the search results. That's how I learned some things when I had difficulties with getting answers from asking people. The process is easier said than done, in my opinion, and it could occasionally be a lot to read depending on your search. Keep your head held high

Your mother shouldn't have verbally assaulted you in that manner. Let me ask you this is it a question you have asked before and she's answered or was this the first time you asked? And is this the norm responses you get from her? Does she always go on the attack?

Well I hadn't asked This question in the situation it was being asked in before so yes you could say it was the first time I asked. This is not always how she replies. She does not always go on the attack.