I decided to start this support group because today was one of the days that I feel absolutely sad about not being able to have a child. ( whoa..that was the first time I ever said that). So I found this website hoping to get support from others like myself but surprisingly joining made me feel worse due to the fact that everyone is talking about IVF and other fertility treatments and how sad they are...well just imagine if you didn't even have the cash to try like myself. I'm 38 and have been trying almost for a decade but I barely can pay my bills and student loans. It saddens me deeply. I'm currently working two jobs and trying to get a third to save money just to see a fertility doctor. Please if anyone has any advice for me, I'm willing to listen.