I have been dealing with my H SA for sometime now and of course having issues with it.
I have been reading other people's storys and how they are couping and what they are doing as a couple to overcome it.
One thing I did learn was the a SA has to get rid of the temptations like the sites and channels and emails to other women and my husband had emails to other men as well.
Last night he subscribed to Skype and I am very upset, this to me is another tool for him to use for porn. I can totally picture it, he has an excuse that his daughter asked him to have it so they can talk to each other. First off one daughter live in our same town and we see all the time and second the other daughter he calls and they talk on the phone only when it is convenient, not always. So I am putting my foot down and telling him no he can't have this site. Do you think I am being to harsh or hurtful? What to do if he doesn't listen?
Just need some advice please, this is consuming all my energy everyday about him and his stupid SA,