I have a question. When my BF and I are sitting on the couch and he is rubbing my back or leg, he always makes it a point to rub OVER my clothes. Even if he starts rubbing my leg under my pants he will put my pants over my leg and then continue rubbing. like he doesn't wanna feel my skin.
That is weird! Does he have sensory integration issues? My son has them and has problems eating based on food textures and he is very picky about what kind of fabrics he'll wear in terms of clothes. He likes more sweatpant type material than the stiff starchy feel of blue jeans. If the clothes drive him nuts he will complain to no end and usually after school pretty much takes any pants off.
I was just thinking sensory integration because hair is also a nervous tic type thing for my son and that might explain the skin contact. I hope you figure out what is going on!
A rub is a rub to my h, and he thinks it all leads to one thing. Yep, a good time.
This might be a good question for the SA's over in the main discussion board, maybe someone there can shed some light.
curious because my H hated wearing clothes when he was a kid.