My H has been gone only one night and I thougt I would not have to worry since he is with his grandson and his two daughters, Well checking his emails tonight and noticed he signed up to a new email address on his phone. The phone is our problem, that is when everything started. email sexing, on line porn all at his finger tips. Why oh why can't he stop.... I have had it. He will tell me his daughters made him, so I already know the excuses.... and I am sick.... no help from my f-ing husband..... again
The phone is a big problem with addicts. Having that access all the time is too tempting. You can't control it and trying to keep track of it will only make you crazy. Try focusing on yourself and see what you can do for you now instead of focusing on him.
I spent 4 years obsessively checking his email, browsing history, phone records and it nearly drove me crazy. I finally had to look at myself and see what is was doing to ME. His addiction had turned me into a passive aggressive monster. I finally had to cut him loose. If he wants to destroy himself, fine, but not me in the process.
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