I live in Chicago. I am single after a relationship ended badly. I was broken by the man that swore he loved me. He cheated on me with several men. I knew he was bisexual, but I never thought that he would sleep with men while he was with me. The final straw was when he told me that he brought his side dude to our anniversary vacation, and that my money was used to pay for his ticket and hotel. He told me that he would care for me, he would provide for me. He broke my heart so badly that I was turned off by men for years. I am ready to date again, but I have not found the right person to talk to. I found myself surrounded by guys who I know it would never work out with. I know I have standards, and the guys around me just don't fit them. I am not ready for my heart to be broken again. Any advice about how to date again after a rough breakup?