I was married for 35 years and then my Ed died 2 years ago. I married at the age of 18 in 1974. The world was a different place. I don;t wan't to stay alone for the rest of my life (I;m 54) . I was a virgin when I got married I don't want to just jump into bed but will men have patience with me? I am soooooooooo lonely. I have no idea where do I go to meet men my age?