This is for all people who have lost a child.There is a wonderful support group out that you should know about.It is called Compassionate Friends and it has been in existence since the early 1970s.It was founded by a minister who lost their child and it is a wonderful support group for anyone at this time.The loss of a child is taboo in our society.This is my message to all of you have loss..It is not your fault.Dont listen when people try to convey this message.Now the Compassionate Friends are going to have a very special ceremony.It is a vigil.You will carry candles and by this vigil you can remember your child and you will be supported by other people who will be beneficial to you right now.I will find out about this vigil later.