SIBLING LOSS GROUP Community Group
GROUP FOR LOSS OF SISTERS AND BROTHERS
vader
today is a very unknown day.It is the national sibling day and it means that the brothers and sisters who generally dont get along...this is a time to put aside all of your differences.Frank loved bein a brother and he was.The purpose of a brother is to help and heal the house when the father is no longer around..and this is what Frank did.Frank gave up his retirement to do so....only a few years later to be sidelided by an accident.What happened to my brother..shouldnt have happened to noone.He made me promise not to tell mom or Stanley.Mom is no longer with us..but here is what happened on 12/24/1989.Frank was called into work to pick up the guards.He was suppose to have it off..but this was Xmas time.Frank was going to work..when he noticed a car was parked in the middle of the road.This car was blocking everyone that tried to pass and Frank told me that the car had a funny smell.Inside were at least 3 people and they were really arguing.Frank asked this person to move his car and thats when it happened.As Frank was walking back to his car...out of the Kentucky Fried Chicken parking lot came a car that was carrying the manager.They just had a party and neither of them shouldnt have been driving.I am not saying that Kentucky Fried manager was drunk..I have never said this...The person who was driving couldnt see Frank and as Frank was starting his car...he rammed into his car and the all of a sudden..it was a chain reaction.Frank was pinned in his car and he couldnt get out...he started to scream and ask God to let him live another 5 years so I could start my own life after things get settled.Then Frank collasped.He slumped over the wheel.A teenager saw this and he had a cell phone and called 911.The police were there for they were directing something and they were getting complaints from the seniors about the loudness of the party.They couldnt get Frank out of the car ...so a special machine was in.The jaws of life was used and when frank got out...he was barely alive.Stanley was at home preparing to go up to New York State for the dinner.He was given a special award.The police came over the house and Stanley went to the hospital.Frank was on a respiratior.They didnt think that he was going to live and told stanley frank was ill.He has high blood pressure..but at the wheel..Frank had a silent heart attack.God answered our prayers and Frank lived to see 68 and died on 8/1/2004.Frank lived to be a very long life and he had a long and happy one.People..please do not drink and drive.it almost cost his life..And Frank lived in the house after my mother had the stroke and he took care of it..but he told stanley after 6 months to sell it..he couldnt keep it up and asked me if i were mad..no..it takes money to operate a house and things are expensive..i would have to sell.So remember
brothers...be nice to your sisters...there may come a time when the both of you will really need each other.by vader who still misses frank.
brothers...be nice to your sisters...there may come a time when the both of you will really need each other.by vader who still misses frank.
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