SIBLING LOSS GROUP Community Group
GROUP FOR LOSS OF SISTERS AND BROTHERS
In August it will be 4 years that I lost my beloved brother.And what is so strange before he died,he called me on that sunday.He called me Sunday..the 18th of July and he told me that he was going.I did not know what to say.ANd then I asked him-what would I do? Frank told me this"You have to learn to live without me." When he said this,I knew that his struggles would soon be over.He was just one heck of a brother and he also told me before he died to leave Brad when I still have the time.My boyfriend Brad then and now has got a drinking problem.At Christmas,he was picked up by the seattle police department for his 3rd DUI and it hasnt been good since.Frank told me that this would happen,but things are getting to be a little better.Brad has been sober for two months and told me that he would never drink again.He does not know how I miss Frank and I cannot tell him.But everyday I cry and cry and think of all of the things that we did together.And Frank had one dream before he died-he wanted The Mariners to win the World Series! Heres to you,Bubba and I miss you! You were the best!
So sorry to hear about your brother. Losing a sibling is very hard. It's hard sometimes to discuss our true feelings to someone. I lost a sister to brain cancer on Jan 08. I'm sometimes embrassed by the way I cry so often and the roller coaster emotions. I had no idea that I would be experincing sooo many emotions. And the memories of her, hurts me deeply. I miss her so much. I have been on main bereavement board - not knowing this group existed. I'm glad I found it!
I wish you peace and comfort as you remember your brother.
So sorry to hear about your brother. It's scary to think that 4 years down the track I may still be feeling as i am now. I lost my brother under suspicious circumstances in Feb 08. The pain is almost unbearable, sometimes it hurts too much to cry and I just stare into space feeling my heart break. Our footy team won the Grand Final here last year after 44 years without one. So i'm glad Stu was alove to see it!
God Bless
-Katie- xx
Brad but it is slowly unreavling.I do not care for him anymore.I feel so empty when I am with Brad.Frank told me that this would happen.The lease is up in August so I am bearing all of this grief.Brad has been sober for a few months now but he can very,very nasty when he is not drinking.I do miss Frank.He would call me every Tuesday and Frank liked Shawn Alexander.He would have been upset about the trade.Heres to you,Bubba!
May you make the decisions that put you on the path to happiness. And don't put up with other people's bs. Say it like it is.