Will anyone tell me the answer to this.How do you say goodbye? What do you do when it is 4 years? When do you let go? I just cant say goodbye to Frank.It is just a deary way to me.Frank was the best friend that I ever had and he was so right about certain people.I realize now that he was so right about my first love.I have realized this for two months..the reason for our break-up in 1968 was this..he stopped loving me and he didnt know how to say it.But I realize this and I will say it..It was the time to be in love.It was a time of innocence,love and music.It was a time to be young.And I will never forget the time when I was 21.I will never forget it.I will never forget the surprize that my father gave me.And I will never forget my father.To anyone who says that they are not hurt by the loss of their parents..then I will say this..I do feel nothing but pity for you because I lost my father at 40.I lost my father at a time when I was just about to blosom.And I will never forget my father or the wonderful times that I had.My father took me and my mother to the most wonderful places.I have seen such wonderful places.I have seen wonderful performers.And no man will ever match up to my father..Brad certainly doesnt and he never will.Vader.