This topic is going to bring a great deal of criticism.But what do people have got against crying? I mean...is it because crying is associated with bad events and the death of Michael Jackson? Is is because crying is associated with and as a sign of weakness? I havent cried in a such a long time and this is wrong.I have to get my emotions out...What is a person suppose to do after they lost someone they love? How can they display the fact that they still hurt and a person in pain doesnt look too pretty...How can I display this? So I am asking this question...Cant we all grieve in peace? And for heavens sake...dont tell me to stop crying apparently the people who are saying this havent lost someone they loved and someone like Brad and Frank and I have to deal with these emotions everyday....Please do not shake me and tell me not to cry.Do me a favor.......can you tell me how to live?