SIBLING LOSS GROUP Community Group
GROUP FOR LOSS OF SISTERS AND BROTHERS
Hi, Im Susan and I lost my sister 1/10 from cancer. I am 1 of 6 ,and she was my first sibling to pass. I spent more time with her than my other siblings, we were not just sisters we were friends.
Last year at this time I thought I was going crazy, I just could not come to terms with her death. I slept and cried, almost never left my house. About a week after she passed I started having panic attacks.I didn't know what was happening to me, I could not function. Just after the 1 year anniversary of her death, I was told by a family member to GET OVER IT!!!!! Like I could just get over the death of my sister. Is it written somewhere you can only grieve for a specific time period? I'm still grieving, I still want to pick up the phone and talk to her.I miss my friend.
Last year at this time I thought I was going crazy, I just could not come to terms with her death. I slept and cried, almost never left my house. About a week after she passed I started having panic attacks.I didn't know what was happening to me, I could not function. Just after the 1 year anniversary of her death, I was told by a family member to GET OVER IT!!!!! Like I could just get over the death of my sister. Is it written somewhere you can only grieve for a specific time period? I'm still grieving, I still want to pick up the phone and talk to her.I miss my friend.
I have just joined to, i lost my brother 5 weeks ago to an unexpected heart attack, my boyfriend keeps telling me to move on and stop thinking about my bro so much, he obviously cant cope with my grief and anyone who cant support us are probably not the right people to have around us. big hugs