Hello and welcome. Even though you haven't really gotten responses here yet-- feel free to post and share on other posts and threads. Sometimes it is a bit slow and feels like noone is around, but I have noticed some more newbies like yourself. We also have another group called "Sex on the Brain" for some of us who now think about it far too much as we aren't getting any. On there we may say just what is on our mind or have a few games or try to find some humor in a very painful reality.

I am hoping things may be improving for you, but if not-- we have all been finding ways to "get what we need" and make it through. You will too. Hugs, Kim

Hi MountainRock. I feel your frustration; flying solo is no substitute. Thanks veggiequeen for insight on "Sex on the Brain". I need to look into that group!

Flying solo can be so empty sometimes and lonely. It’s not what we really want, which is to be wanted, to touch, to be touched. I desperately miss the connection with my wife.

Your not alone man. I think back and I say to myself "How'd I let this happen, but it's not me. I'm ready for some horizontal mombo. Flying solo is but a temporary fix although the hot water feels really good. Man I want some A C T I O N!

Kim.
Thank you for your reply. I means a lot to hear back for the people in this group. Although this situation is difficult for me to talk about, not taking any action is more difficult. I will follow your advice and check into Sex on the Brain.

I hope things are going well for you also. Even though I do not know you or others in this group, I hope to over time.
Thank you.

Thanks to Greenteam, Lacy1517 and Josh in MD. Man, I hope we all can experience a change for the better.

I am back. Sorry for being AWOL. Tough times right now. I know we are all going through them. I hope you are all well and healthy.

Welcome, I'm fairly new here too! Sorry you're in similar circumstances. I never knew how important sex was in my marriage until it stopped happening. We had really great sex and I really miss it. My husband and I have been through some tough times and we lost trust in each other and didn't always feel like we were there for each other and as a result my husband put up a wall and now most of our interactions are negative and I think in order to feel better about himself my husband belittles me. Not having sex makes me feel not human. I feel no sex is yet another way my husband is punishing me for mistakes I made. Even though this is a painful situation to be in I am glad to have others here who can understand and be there for me. I hope you find comfort here as well.

Thank you Bkind. I relate very well to your story, except the rolls are reversed.
Like you, we used to have very good sex. Very often. I miss it terribly and still have very strong desires that go unfulfilled. I get the silent treatment about 40% of the time. Followed by fairly constant negative comments. I know I am not perfect, but I do deserve better. I hope this group helps you!

Hey Rock! Ken here. Glad to hear another guy is going through this nightmare. I’m not glad for you. I’m sorry. I’m living it.