Sexless Marriage Community Group

This group is for those people who find themselves married to a partner who has little or no interest in having a sexual relationship. This can be very painful for the other partner and leave them feeling rejected, unloved and unwanted. This is a group to provide support for this very painful and very private issue.

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krispal
krispal

Hi All,


I am kris.I am in a sexless marriage.my wife is younger than me but never interested in intimacy. I feel frustrated.She is a homemaker.she gets up at 10am.She never prepairs breakfast.she like  likely her mobile and browses internet all day long.I take care of all hers needs and wishes. I buy her gift and things she asks.


I have tried discussing this with her many times with no good outcome.I am 37 now and feel ,I am missing out in life.I told her that's its not just sex but What I look for closeness  ,hugs,kisses, cuddles,romance but she is not interested.she for sure is Not into anyone else.


Intercourse is the final stage of intimacy but I believe the romancy,foreplay,romance,, is what I miss the most.



Life is short and everyone lives just once.I don't know what to do.i here sharing my very personal thoughts ,hope this is a good place.



I want to know do woman feel sexual desire? Do they express it?


veggiequeen
veggiequeen
Yes we do, but sadly we are sometimes getting the same result (or lack of it) as you. It is very frustrating and does often lead to anger and resentment. (at least it did for me. )

Life is short and you should not have to adjust and try to deal with this. Sounding like she may have issues (depression, overdependent on the internet...) Have you tried suggesting counseling? It should not be your job to spend your life and sacrifice your own needs and happiness for a SO when they do not give you a thought.