Hey everybody! I'm new here and my heart goes out to everyone suffering from a sexless marriage.  I was in similar situations with the little to no sex in my marriage and I'm working on bringing sex back and so far so good. I can give you tips on how to bring sex back into your marriage. Some of these things I did and am currently doing. If you've tried all these tips hit me up I'm sure I can find another tip. I'm not an expert or certified in therapy. Just thought I share what I found that could be helpful for your marriage.  Give them a try (the things you haven't tried yet) and let us know how it worked out for you! 

- Have sex without intercourse this takes the pressure off of sex. Outercourse examples are frottage, use toys, mutual masturbation, hot makeput sessions, oral, hands only

- If it is age related consider taking enhancement pills but consult with your doctor 1st!

- Have an activity/ date night jar filled with things you and your spouse would want to do but haven't tried it yet. And have a monthly or weekly drawing from that jar.

- Have a 24 hour digital detox (if you can't have a 24 digital detox then talk with your partner and discuss a time that would work best for both of you to put those devices down)

- Do something on your honey-do list, do a chore that your partner doesn't like doing, take something off of your partners to-do list and don't tell them (unless they ask of course)

- Play games! Conversation games or sex games. Any game that will bring you closer to your partner and get to know them better. (Examples of games: the and is a game card company that focuses on closeness and learning your partner...https://www.theand.us/ , Tonight's conversation is another great conversation game https://acemetaphor.shop/ , truth or dare the adult version, naked pillow fight.. for more ideas go to https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.scarymommy.com/lifestyle/sex-games-for-couples/amp

- Try a 7 day or 30 day sex challenge... you can add to the basic rule but you cannot eliminate the basic rule or it won't work... The basic rule is you must have sex everyday of which ever challenge you both choose no matter what! (Unless your sick or something then just restart the challenge when you're all better) The goal to to work through your problems while bringing sex back into your marriage. Sex in any sexual manner can be considered sex like kissing passionately, touching each other, mutual masturbation etc.

- Practice body appreciation speak kindly and lovingly to each other... help boost each others confidence and self esteem. (In person if possible). Text them compliments

- Set a reminder to send a text to your partner every day (or often) to let them know you're thinking about them

- Create a "love-tank list " and chose an item to do each week (Think of it as a bucket-list for beginners)

- Write your spouse notes of gratitude (even the Bible says give thanks always)

- Read out loud together, serve breakfast in bed together, play their favorite music

-Have a weekly date night

-Try pheromones! They have colognes, perfumes, and oils shop at Amazon 

If you are religious pray together and go to church together 

- Cook their favorite meal, try aphrodisiac foods!

- Learn each others love language https://5lovelanguages.com/

- Practice smiling at your partner (WARNING!!! SMILES ARE CONTAGIOUS!!!)

- Practice romantic touching only (no sex)

- Schedule sex

-  Have a set time every single day to talk to and connect with your partner 

- Break a habit that annoys your partner if you don't know what that habit is, ask your partner. 

- Go to counseling couples or individual 

- Try a sex therapist 

- Book a spa day ( if you really want to make it interesting look into those that offer happy endings)

- Workout together 

- Get a babysitter or drop the kids off at a family or friends house for a few hours!

- Go to the doctor!  It could be medical! If it is medical Discuss your options with your doctor. 

- Practice the 2-2-2 rule! The 2/2/2 rule means going out on a date every two weeks, enjoying a weekend away every two months and taking a holiday for a week every two years.