Sexless Marriage Community Group

This group is for those people who find themselves married to a partner who has little or no interest in having a sexual relationship. This can be very painful for the other partner and leave them feeling rejected, unloved and unwanted. This is a group to provide support for this very painful and very private issue.

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Hope to Find a FWB here in Kansas ....

WichitaGuy
WichitaGuy

So Thought things were going to change but seems like nothing ever does and there are always reasons she won't do anything with me! Going on 3 years now!! What the F... is wrong with me! I mean am I that repulsive? Is it my size?? What? I sadly have been looking for a FWB here in Kansas but that is hard to find here and I won't just mess aroubd with anyone. Some days I just wajt to hold out hope my wife will wake up but other days I just want to find someone who is willing to be physical with me! I know i am wrong but i am lonely and not sure how long i can go. If I met someone here willng to be "Friends" i don't think I could say No at this point! Anyway just needed to vent. Hope there are sone of you out there doing better than me! 

msjaye1
msjaye1
I hate that you're in this situation. I made a post with tips that you can try. "How to bring sex back" maybe try some of the things listed
Lacy1517
Lacy1517
Your pain, frustration, and hopelessness are clear in your writing. Wish I had the words to help you or a solution for you. I don’t know if this will bring you any comfort, but please know that you are not alone. Everyone in this group is suffering in one way or another and are dealing with the devastation our sexless marriages/relationships have caused. Sounds like you were at a really really low point when you posted, so I am hoping things have turned a corner for you. I go through ups and downs with anger, depression, hopelessness, resentment and then other times I’m just resigned that this is my life. I’m guessing a lot of us repeat this cycle. Again, I hope you are doing better now, but vent here anytime.
Lacy1517
Lacy1517
Ohhh! And there is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting a FWB! Your spouse is neglecting you sexually, emotionally, and physically. It’s effing lonely and we all need to feel wanted and touched.
WichitaGuy
WichitaGuy
Thanks for all the thoughts and kibd words. Although my situation hasn't changed i am doing better. I have my ups and downs like everyone but try to stay as positive as I can!..Oh and still looking for things to either change or a FWB to fill the void but not rushing anything!
WichitaGuy
WichitaGuy
Hmm.. didn't take my last reply! Anyway I am doing ok at the moment and thank you for your thoughts and kind words! Doing the best i can to stay possative and Not dwell on my situation but still waiting for things to either change or to find a fwb to fill the void! Hope you all are doing well and wish you all the best!