Sexless Marriage Community Group
This group is for those people who find themselves married to a partner who has little or no interest in having a sexual relationship. This can be very painful for the other partner and leave them feeling rejected, unloved and unwanted. This is a group to provide support for this very painful and very private issue.
Hey there. This is to new members and, of course, to all the kind, caring ones that have been here a while. I love seeing new imput on our site. I think it’s really important to vent. But while that’s important, I know from my own experience that it is more healing to have someone actually take the time to listen and respond. As you all know, I am trying to find what enlightenment may be available to me at this moment in my life. I have been keeping a journal and writing my life in a novel format. And it’s really helped me to learn more about myself. Because I can ‘go back’ in time to see where I have been and what I was feeling. The thing is that, for now, unless I can publish it someday, it’s just for me. And that’s great, just feels a bit lonely. So joining discussions here makes me feel like,well, part of a group. Captain obvious here. I have felt recently, and have discussed this with a certain ‘queen bee’ my concern that I was over sharing and dominating discussions. That is NOT who I am in ‘real’ life. Actually I guess I have been a bit of a door mat since I lost my self confidence a ‘lifetime’ ago. The changes I have made are,well, changing that thank goodness. I get that we feel like we are just rehashing the same thing and can feel silly or say what’s the point. Already said that. But every day is different and yesterday’s comments may be today’s ‘ah ha’ moment so thanks for being here. It means the world to me. Was going to upgrade to the crazy happy face but I don’t know if I will ever get there. Not sure if I want to!! I am good just being good! Ttys
I feel like i am collecting pieces of a puzzle to get me closer to that healthier, happier life . Also.... if I can do or say ANYTHING that could help spare another some of the pain or heartache I have gone through, I would say it in a heartbeat. (That is what drives my chattiness. Feel free to go for the duct tape. That is what stbx threatens often to "shut me up" lol)
Welcome to all the newbies and thanks for sticking around to those of us here a bit longer.
PS A few have mentioned rehashing the same stuff over and over. I am guilty of this often. There are times the same issues come back with a vengeance. To me, if something is causing pain or anger.....(I don't care if you mentioned it yesterday.....if it bothers you, it has been my experience it is better to get it out than continue to be hurt but quiet....... thus my journals with my sometimes too frequent battle with my "funks".) with journals, we can write down how , what, why we are feeling. If some of us see it, we may also add our comments, input or support.... that is why we are here . :)