Guess not. :(

Yeah, I don’t mind sharing. I know having those fantasies certainly help me get through the day. While I know my wife would never do it, I often fantasize about coming home to her with another man, and me just walking in on them.
Just because I know how much she’s been through and I truly know how much pain she’s in (being young and not able to have more kids). I’d like to let her be with someone else and just let them explore each other if that made her happy. I know that’s weird and probably a little TMI, but in a weird way it helps me get through those lonely periods when I know she’s feeling lost.

Seeing someone you love and their reaction when they are experiencing something they do enjoy is nothing wrong with that. (For me would sting as I could not give it to him....for you...tells me you do love her alot)

It might sound super "vanilla", but i just fantasise about feeling someone's warmth against me. I want to spend ages just kissing until i can't hold myself anymore, then after sex we just hold each other.

I know i kinda skipped over the actual sex part. I think that's because the thing I really crave is the intimacy of closeness and acceptance.

Trust me I do as well. Would love to actually share the affection , desire and connection with a man not just looking for a quick roll in the hay.

Don’t feel weird for “skipping over the sex part”. For me, it’s all about having some kind of closeness with my wife again, and I’m literally willing to try anything to get there. Just feel like she’s lost and I’ll never get her back sometimes.

I have to admit.... You both have helped me to realize that it is not only we women who do long for the affection, emotion and that connection if we are lucky we do get the chance to share with someone we love.

I used to fantasize all the time, I have even wrote lots of erotica. It was a great way to escape my sexless marriage, I emphasized WAS. Now I actually find fantasizing way more stressful. Last night my wife was out so I decided to have some ME time and enjoy a little one on one. While part way through a good fantasy and good stroke (sorry to be blunt) my mind shifted and I thought "what a waste of time" was pretty damb depressing. So I went and watched an action movie.

Sorry may not have been exactly what the tread was about. Fantasy use to help me all the time. Would rather have the real thing

Trust me we'd all rather have the real thing. I sometimes wonder if my ability to fill in the gaps with all the unfulfilled desires happily addressed does more damage than good. But I am not dead yet....or ready to give up

Love to share fantasy with u or anyone else down for it hi

Sexless marriage for years now. Fantasies are all I have.
Very hard to deal with.