I've been there, yeah it really does suck! For me, Masturbation doesn't help it just fuels the fire to my addiction. One of the things that really DOES help and provides me with a great release is running. I'm not sure what other hobbies or sports you might be into, but all I know for myself is that it really helps me get through!

Hang in there!

- Eddie

feel the same way now. Sigh...

Yes, but I think I might have a problem as well. I feel that extreme urge inside and feel like I might explode if I'm not able to get off. BUT when I'm with my partner, that extreme urge doesn't fill my penis and I am flaccid as hell. It's embarrassing, frustrating and makes me very angry and depressed.

Tbillman, that is one of the many effects of excessive porn usage and masturbation. I'm not sure if you've checked out the website YourBrainOnPorn.com? It definitely provides a lot of insight into this subject. This may not be what you want to hear, but you may need a reboot from Porn AND masturbation for a period to gain your normal sex drive back. Also, could you be putting too much pressure on yourself?

Anyway I'm no expert, but check out that website and hopefully its helpful for you!

yeah I get it

I cant last a week without sex, I CANT ok. the closer it gets to one week this feeling starts to build up stronger and stronger. 2 weeks in and im really crazy mad and angry and frustrated and just....

I deal with it by booking multiple men in a week, in case one cancels theres fallbacks.

lately though, I got a bf so he comes over whenever I ask him too. but if ever he doesnt... ill just get some guy somewhere

Flaming.............................get off this fucking site.

I've been feeling this way for a couple months now, like an insatiable appetite has come over me and seeks an outlet. I've not acted on it but it's in my thoughts constantly. I'm afraid that if I ever acted on it I wouldn't be able to stop nor would I want to.

yes phoenix as you describe sexual melting is wats gone on. so i ask what if i lived my life doing nothing? no one gets hurt no one hurts me the environment is left in peace. Returning vets from the carnage of conflict will ask the same things,Like the vet we are at war with ourselves the porn horror violent acts we visit in our rooms take us to places we do not want to go but feel compelled toward knowing our destruction is assured.With each piece of our energy we feed to the horror it leaves us colder out to sea till all around us vast emptiness,


This is the post-phase when we reallise how little we resect ouselves how little we care for the future how much we hold onto the past wishing we could have treated the other person with a little more dignity when we had the chance.

With polar ice in your heart our only warmth is friction to hope for those few fleeting moments we are happy at peace and in love.Followed by a bliissful floatation down a slow moving thermal stream which carries us in to the next life as this one is spent.

I can offer you no hope but this reminder that at your conception you were the strongest swimmer out of 250 million other sperm.With now as then you only had one choice ....to survive