Porn has always existed throughout history in one form or another. Whether enscribed on rocks, peeping tom, or through photographic memory, it has always been a part of the human psyche. We thrive off of novelty and fantasy. It has always had the same impact on the brain receptors as it does on our brains today while paving the pleasure pathways in the brain. The only difference between back then and now is that porn is accessible at our fingertips making it easier to waste our time & consume our lives with. It's just as addictive as Facebook! So the real problem resides in the fact that our lives have become so consumed with our technology and that's the key to understanding what is causing the breakdown of our relationships with others. Spending a moderate amount of time on technology is fine. We just need to keep in mind that the amount of time spent on it will have a nuclear effect on all the other faucets of our lives. So the best thing we can do is to control how much time we are spending on using it and when. There are multiple studies showing that watching tv or computer late at night activates the neurons in our brain to be more wired. That can lead to chronic insomnia and therefore crankiness/arguments/bad attitudes. If we balance the tech consumption, our bodies won't feel so exchasted and we'll probably be in a better mood for our partners. That way we'll live more centered and peaceful lives & be one with nature.