Sex / Pornography Addiction Support Group

Sexual addiction, also sometimes called sexual compulsion, is a form of psychological addiction to sexual intercourse and other sexual behavior.

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Jennheimrich 08/30/2007

when my fella denies me access to his body, i find myself angry, and focused more on porn than anything else. I tune him out, tone him out, and focus on satisfying that primal urge. he gets sad when i do that, but doesnt he understand i feel sad when i was denied SO DARN MUCH!!! Gosh, I mean every excuse that supposedly comes from us women was coming out of his mouth. headaches, not in the mood, watching tv.... WATCHING TV FOR F!CKS SAKE!! help!!! Does everyone with my addiction to sex, alternate to porn upon rejection ?

deleted_user 08/30/2007

It is a sign of addiction, and also a way of "medicating" the pain. We all have done it (those of us who claim to be addicted) at one time or another. I use to do it just for spite when my wife turned me down.
Satisfying the urge is something we all do when we get rejected.

deleted_user 08/31/2007

I beleive this is why we are here. I o the same as you. She says no so much that I don't even bother asking anymore. I wait for her to make the first move. Yah, Wait I think I just saw a pig flying over head. Nope straight to porn. I use the same method as you so I'm sure i'm not much help. I just felt like venting.

deleted_user 09/01/2007

Yes, ofcourse. That is why I had to step back and look at what was really causing me to go to porn (or in my case online chat).

Like it was said earlier... it is just a way to medicate the pain, but it is a futile attempt because the pain is always there....

deleted_user 09/01/2007

Raises hand. Yeah, Denial is a hugely disapointing relationship killer. Your not alone. You always have a friend in me if you need to talk.

Huggles hun.

deleted_user 01/13/2012

Hard to tell.

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