Sex / Pornography Addiction Support Group
Sexual addiction, also sometimes called sexual compulsion, is a form of psychological addiction to sexual intercourse and other sexual behavior.
I am 47 i have had intercourse. 1 time. I have had oral about 3 different. Pepole... I have let woman down. For one i am to thick sensitive wise. And the other i lose intetest and can not keep it up.. I have e.d. and i have never cum with a woman..i am a losser... I could not give my last girl friend what she wanted.
I have had some very strong fears of not being a good lover; these fears have only added to my warped view of sexuality and to feeding my addiction.
My new ideal is that love, caring and intimacy should come first before any cares about how good I am at sex. Selfishness is reflected in how much I care about me and my performance and my partner's reassurance that I did well with sex.