1st off, the cops aren't going to track you down or do anything to you except for maybe a warning to stay away from those type of online social interactions. 2nd, I know how you are feeling when it comes to wanting to be loved, but you need to look at the workings of a relationship and ask yourself you are capable of being in one with the seriousness that you want. You are young with your life ahead of you(cliche), take your time with love and life.

I think Raziel is absolutely right. Also, I thought a relationship was what I needed to level things out. That my lust for pornography and cyber sex and phone sex would just disappear. In reality, nothing has changed, as much as I love and am loved and I really am and really do, I was naive to think a relationship was what I needed. Just don't give up, I genuinely believe, that getting over this will change your life and make love and sex all the more meaningful. Good luck.

just so everyone knows i am not in jail so whoever the person was they didnt tell. I am in a relationship now, and she's telling me to masterbate wit the porn n everything because it helps to know what kind of stuff i would like, and its educational since i never been wit another person befor. but she doesnt know that I have a problem with it already, and its getting so bad that when i go to the library and get online i cant stay away from it. I think this is real, and i cant believe btw that as much as i cant get away from it, people tell me i shouldnt b on this group because im 16. i have lied so many frikin times about my age to get porn emailed to me, what is the deal? What do you classify as an addiction to be allowed on sex/pornography addiction? I would say going to the library when i get my computer taken away to watch porn is pretty close if not...

I agree with the previous posts. I also agree with you that you do have a problem. However it may not be as bad as you think. I remember when I was your age sex was the only thing I ever thought about. However I am a guy and supposedly that is expected from us. I think that girls do the same thing at your age though. Your hormones are going wild. I am concerned about you though. Especially doing chat and online sex. Sometimes it is easy to forget and let out to much information and make it possible for the guys to find you. Especially if you have profiles on other sites. I don't think the cops are going to come and get you. However they might go after the guys you are cybering with. I realize you ARE more mature for your age than others around you. However you are still young. Be careful, have fun, and enjoy being young now why you can.