I don't know if i can continue this relationship. I have tried my hardest to be understanding, patient and he still denies an addiction. We were on vaction and we stayed in one room with our kids. When we were asleep or in the pool he stayed in the bathroom watching. I felt so nervous and uncomfortable at the water park with all these women half naked. That haf to be a trigger i guess. I am just so done with not feeling like enough. He is now just denying when i catch him. We started out with me saying i just need him to see it as a problem. He said he would stop as any adddict would and yet he continues trying to hide it. So my question is how do i move out on my own. I just got a job but i am worried about telling him i am done. I have a little debt that is going to prevent me from getting a house. I know i need to take this one step at a time but i am so over whelmed. Any advise is appreciated.