That sounds like a very distressing situation and perhaps the same can be said for our entire society that we live in these days... it is not the Leave it to Beaver era of the 1950's by any means.

I would ask a pastor for advice or go to an S-anon group to ask for advice for tactical advice and be sure to pray about it too.

From a larger perspective, your comment touches on social issues that I'm not sure our society is ready to face. Too many to include in one post but I'll touch a couple. I think many are starting to see more clearly that females are used and exploited by advertising, TV, Internet, and show business apart from the porn destroying their lives... kids are increasing indoctrinated that they come from animals when they go to school. Do public schools help kids create any form of moral compass? How about colleges? The US public school was at one time the #1 school system worldwide for K12 education, now it's in like 30th place, scoring even worse than some 3rd world countries AND the US receives more funding than any other school system in the world. Who can argue that the the US school system does anything to help sexual morality? So the kids have nobody to help them. Who, like a Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., is to stand up and fight for the females of these days? The feminist? If so, their voice is so weak it's not even as loud as a whisper. Nobody can hear anything from them but their political stances on abortion and how much they adore certain political females and despise other political females. Because of their hypocrisy, everybody see's them as the fake group they are, and they leave millions of young females kids as victims. They have no backbone to stand up and fight back against these perverted jerks that are exploiting females. Who is left to help the kids of this age? My apologies to get all worked up here but I really wish there was something that could be done. There are so many powerful influences on children these days that I think parents are feeling completely out of control and nobody knows what to do. When I was a teenager that's when I came to the Lord. The public school had so destroyed my life that I was only going to church because I was planning to kill myself. I tried a couple times before that but I was more serious this time, I went to church to get things right with God just in case there was a God after I died I didn't want to go hell just in case. The youth group took me in... a despite and rejected drug addict.

I agree with you and I'm sad to hear about your family members but who will stand against the exploiters, those running these rings, and doing everything they can to pervert? I hope somebody rises us and pushes back against this billion dollar industry and this public school system that's destroying kids, just like it destroyed me and left me to rot. Little did they know, God came for the broken hearted and would completely change my life. I pray likewise our country would turn back to serving God. At the very least, we'd have some kind of ethical rule in the states that says... if you create a movie or advertisement that is using a woman or something sexual to try and sell your project... nobody will buy it anymore... we refuse to hurt females any further... and any organization that pushes this type of abuse we rise against it as well. It's time we break woman free from slavery and bondage and in so doing we also tone down the tone that enslaves men to see females as objects. It's much easier for men to be lust free if they don't have 3000 triggering scenarios facing them each week. I'm not advocating for something drastic but some level of modesty. We can't be creating strip clubs in everyday life and expect young men will not be enticed by it and start to get hooked on acting out. Men need to be looking away but where exactly would they learn that from? Public school? I'd love our tax funds to help but chances are zero. Parents? who have little to no influence anymore? Church? when people go maybe on Easter and Christmas? I wish young men would shown the book of Proverbs as part of their education. There's a lot of wisdom in that book specifically for men and their purity.

Well thank you very much for ur response. And all that information. I chose this form because I am interested in those who are addicted to pornography. I'm a recovering addict I've been clean for two years now my dad told me the only way I would get better is if I found god. I did find God in my way. and made peace with him, and the things I've done when I was in my addiction.
I have a stepdaughter she's in her twenties now and she also became sexually active at a young age but I knew her and I knew she was ready at that time. She stayed with the boy till she was 19. Know she is married has a child and another one on the way. We still have a close relationship. I didn't approve of her being sexually active but she was able to talk to me and I knew she would not be hurt by what she was doing. She is married now has a child and another one on the way. We still are very close and she still comes to me when she is having issue of her own.
I wish that was the case for my niece. I will keep in mind looking into schools and there sex education methods. If there are parents out there that want to look into helping our young teens understand there sexually it a safe undistrutive way.

Maybe I'll start a forum!!
Thanks again.

Good idea about the forum:) The world needs people to help create stuff like that:)