and what happens when your 'assets' fade? What you state I have come to refer as objectification of women - it cheapens them and in my case I failed to recognize their inner beauty and the real person - their love, their kindness, their values, their creativity, true intimacy.

Life is too valuable and you're too important to just be a 'quirky chick with tits.'

I don't really feel that way about life. I guess I'm just saying sex is the most important thing in the world. Lust and jealously never fades. Thats why I won't. "Assests" can be more than tits, you find the asset. You abide by it. And the world keeps spinning.

A lot of how we see the world is formed by our childhood environments. If your childhood environment was such that it was overly sexual and that yo9u were abused,, then.. that's the conclusion you would come to.... however,, that's just the little corner of the world that you've been in. Time to come up for air.

I use to believe that the world was ran by sex and I hopped on board. But it destroyed me in many ways. We all have a choice to make. What do we really value? Things that are shallow or give us immediate gratification? Or lasting things that bring true happiness but take work? I chose the first path for a while, that didn't work out at all. Now I am trying the latter. After much research and self study I decided to experiment with myself. I started to boycott cable, clubs, movies that objectify women or men, etc. And have since changed my views. It is crazy how much we are conditioned by Hollywood, media, etc. It is all about greed for them. I have realized that there is an entire other side to life out there. I now see that the world really isn't ran by sex. It is just the world I chose to expose myself too. The company I kept, the things I chose to watch or be involved in. I am choosing to make my own way as I see fit, not as I have been conditioned to believe.

Everyday, I walk down the street, and just as many dicks and tits are gawked at than the amount of people that eat meals every day.
I've been at parties without a top on, just because that the way I wanted to be. free. Clothes are just lust triggers. People calm down when your not freaking out trying to make sure your tits are sitting okay so some creep isn't perving' on you. we live in a world of voyeuristics. Why create feminist tension?

Pardon me for saying this--Not sure what your point is but it's possible that you have a touch of the 'Stockholm Syndrome' if you don't quite see your abuse as negative.
It's quite common for the victim to make compensation for the abuser.
It's great having "'assets'' but not everyone will view your assets in the way you want them to. "'Look but don't touch"' will work for those who are not having a problem with self control--and this is why WE are on here. LOL. because we have reached the stage of NO self control.
Of course, you are right, the world does revolve around sex. It still is the number one best selling item But it depends how sexuality affects one.
Most are unaffected, lead normal lives and never reach the stage of being controlled by sexual thoughts 24/7...controlled to the point that they suffer depersonalisation..some lose everything even the will to live.
When this happens we have to agree (however much we might like sex) that something is GRAVELY wrong.
Life is not meant to be controlled by a desire. This will not bring happiness.
THIS is why these people are on this website, including myself, because we learn that our path of choice is not a happy one.
If you are happy with YOUR choice in life that's great for you...however I feel you wouldn't even be on here unless you have a deeper feeling that something is not right(?)
In which case..get it sorted.
This problem we have WONT get better by just having MORE sex, perhaps a different variety etc.
The problem we face on here can only be put right by total abstinence so that the feelings we are running from can surface for us to meet them head on.
If we view any addiction recovery site we learn one thing. However many we view NONE of them say "'oh go ahead and keep viewing..this is not a problem..it's a natural desire so have as much sex as possible anytime anywhere.. FLAUNT your assets."
They realise if they gave this advice the suicide rate would increase tenfold among sex addicts.
But it all depends if you think you have a problem.
Me? Oh yes, I admit I do and have to be vigilant 24/7.
Good luck and thanks for your post.