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No Urge To Try????

Group Founderveggiequeen
veggiequeen

I was chatting with another and the subject of bucket lists came up .  I got to thinking there are probably a few things  that most of us don't really feel an urge to try.   Feel free to add them . I am going to do one at a time as I am wondering if others may share a few with me.    If you disagree and think otherwise, you are welcome to express that as well.  


1 Rimming--- there are many places my tongue  goes and explores.... but this is not one of them.

looking2bhappy
looking2bhappy
Golden Shower
Group Founderveggiequeen
veggiequeen
I hear ya on that one too.

Not into heavy BDSM. (Watched a video once on training a sex slave) As another once said... I am into pleasure, not pain (or torture)
looking2bhappy
looking2bhappy
Electro stimulation - goes along with not wanting pain
I don’t mind a smack on the ass, hair pull or being held down but don’t inflict real pain on me
I am with you on rimming as well
Group Founderveggiequeen
veggiequeen
Yes... I saw that on the sex slave vid as well as a few others. We truly are evil twins as I too enjoy the mild stuff.... just no torture.

I am not into furries. (in animal costumes) Or beastiality.

(PS This is going to be just like our other posts. Noone else is brave enough (or bored enough) to join us. Oh well, their ;loss our gain. lol
looking2bhappy
looking2bhappy
No furries or beastiality for me either

No orgies or group sex - I’m far to insecure and honestly I want my man to give me 100% of his attention
Group Founderveggiequeen
veggiequeen
A few did express interest in threesomes, I honestly think I am also far too insecure and simply crave just 1 man's attention... not to be a shared tool passed around.

Have you ever heard of a fetish where old guys get off being babied and in diapers while being fondled and getting of with women dressing and acting as nurses or caretakers? Saw it on a CSI years ago. Way too disturbing for me.
88742
88742
Rimming = No
Golden Shower = No
BDSM = No for me, but no problem if others want to do it
Electrostimulation = No
Furries or Beastiality = No

And I'll add no auto erotic asphyxiation
88742
88742
Also no to anal, it's icky.
looking2bhappy
looking2bhappy
I have heard of that and I couldn’t handle that, I agree it’s disturbing

I’ve heard of people shitting on their partners chest, that is just so disgusting.
88742
88742
No public sex either. My list of no's is longer than I thought.
looking2bhappy
looking2bhappy
Erotic asphyxiation is a hard no for me
Anal is not something I want but I have to admit I did let a guy try once but I couldn’t relax enough to let it happen

Rape fantasies are off limits for me too
88742
88742
Rape fantasies are weird. I don't know who I judge more, the girl who gets off pretending to be a rape victim or the guy who gets off being a rapist. Both very odd.
Group Founderveggiequeen
veggiequeen
Also agreed NOs to your others. I have to admit I have done anal. Left my first try it on me. Made the mistake of not explaining it was a one time deal ... next round I was expecting doggy style but getting it up the ass again. (Unexpected and no lube again = OUCH. ) I have no more plans for that.
88742
88742
I said no anal, I have done it twice. It wasn't for me, it was the girls request. And no lube? Ouch. That's just seriously inconsiderate.
MaryContrary
MaryContrary
I'm with 88742. Some of those are just too far out for me and icky too. I am a plane-boring-missionary style but might like doggy or cowgirl.
(finger up my a$$ hurt so thinking a pen is would be horrible!
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