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broken1003 03/18/2020

So did not need these coronavirus crap going on. My spouse will be sentenced soon. I have enough stress with that let alone trying to work from home with kids and no one to help. Anyone else having a hard time? Does it end? Is there brighter days ? I feel torn.. would it be better or worse to have to deal with him and registering and all in the same house or best on my own?? I actually was going to counseling and cant now thanks to the virus and schools closed. Its like donthe right thing.. get punched in the face. Just overwhelmed and need to vent.

Akasha247 06/02/2020

Hi—I hear ya. I’m also dealing with delayed court proceedings due to virus. I’ve lived apart from my husband for 9 months so far and while I know he may not be able to come home for more than a year, it’s a total struggle made even more so by the virus. I’ve been in therapy for 2 months and have been fortunate enough to be able to video chat the thing. I only see the therapist every other week, but I need a lot more time, so I joined a 12-Step program for co-dependents, COSA.. I hate that term and I’m also extremely private, so it was hard for me to do. I just had my first call tonight ant I can’t begin to tell you how good it felt to be able to speak, to hear other stories and be surrounded by women going through the same thing. The love and compassion was profoundly comforting. They have multiple call-in meetings a week and they are warm and welcoming to Newcomers.
Hope this helps!

broken1003 06/02/2020

I’ve never heard of that. Interesting. I’ll bring it up to my counselor. Thanks!

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