Sex Offenders Wife Community Group

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Summer1 01/06/2018

I posted earlier and I ment to ask. One of the things that I find the hardest is the fact that I still love my husband with all my heart but will obviously never be ok or understand what he has done ( downloading CP)

I would like to know how other people who stayed with their husbands coped with this ?

I have been copping with this for a year on my own and trying to deal with all the day to day changes to our lives because of this, and it's only really now that this part has hit me so hard. Is this normal ?

My whole world was turned upside down overnight, and I didn't know what kind of life we will have now. I appreciate that because we are in the U.K. A lot of takings are different. Any advice would be appreciated, I feel so alone

Sorry for the rant

Summer

devastated-canadian-wife 01/21/2018

You are not alone! I know that sounds like a cliché, but it’s not. I know somewhat what you are feeling! My husband is in prison for the next six months for sexually molesting a 15 year old girl! Not CP or false accusations! He’s a 50 year old man that choose to bomb our lives to feel up a teenager! I don’t know what our life will be like either! I do know I still love him (trust me it would be so much easier if I didn’t!) I’m choosing to go to marriage counselling and my own counselling! He’s been getting counseling and will continue after he gets out. But it’s gonna be a long hard road! I’ve got a lot of comfort from these groups. We support you and cheer for each other on here! It may seem like nothing, but it is helping me! I hope it’ll help you too! We can be here for each other!

kujo79 01/29/2018

Is has been almost 48 hours since I got the call. "He is being arrested for online solicitation with a minor..." they might as well tell me he was dead...because that is how it feels.

Are you strong if you stay or go?? I had ZERO idea...

I still can't wrap my head around the father of my 2 boys was arrested for this. I can barely function. Am I horrible because this is not the man I married. I can see him in there...somewhere... I hate saying this I truly love him...there are no excuses for what he did and he will have to deal with the consequences like a man that made bad choices and is sick...He is so very broken

txarmywife2018 02/19/2018

All 3 of you sound exactly like me. Things you said here, I’ve said, I’ve thought, I’ve dreamed about, I’ve had nightmares about....you all are me. I’ve been going through this, pretty much solitairely, since July 2015. Then all of a sudden...there you all are. I’m dumbfounded.

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