Hello I'm new and I need to tell my story.  I met my husband while both of us were still in marriages that had broken down, I know please don't judge me.  I fell in love with this man the moment I laid eyes on him and it just felt like I was continually drawn to him.  Fast forward 3 years, 2 divorces and we married in October 2020.  He had been having alot of issues with his ex wife, she had basically kicked him out, changed the locks and decided what she wanted to give him, she kept his computer and used this to blackmail him and extort him.  He ended up giving her the house (fully paid off) 10K month in child support/alimony etc.  We had many discussions about what could have been on the computer but evidently I was a little nieve.  Ex wife had found cameras in the house and she had someone break into his computer and found child porn, he had downloaded some and also taken pictures of teenage girls.  His big thing was voyeurism.  When his business took a hit from Covid and he couldn't keep up the payments she walked the computer into the police and said it contained all sorts of questionable things.  In September the police showed up at our home arrested my husband and confiscated all of his computers, phones etc.  He is now facing over 50  charges, of possession, creation and publishing child porn (no distribution) sexual interference and sexual assault of said ex wife.  I'm an emotional basketcase, I love this man and I know that this is a serious addiction and he is finally getting the help and therapy he should have received years ago.  All of my friends have deserted me and removed me off of Facebook etc., my one daughter (who is an adult) was a victim of his voyeurism and she won't speak to me if I stay with him.  I'm absolutely lost, I want to support him and be here for him as I'm all he has, he is not allowed to see his children and all of our friends and family have deserted us.  OMG how did this happen.  I knew he was damaged however I didn't know the extent, but it doesnt change the fact that I love him and I'm trying to be supportive for him and trying to still maintain a relationship with my daughter.  I'm so fearful of him going to jail and what that would do to him, to us!  Jail is not a safe place for people who have been charged with these kinds of crimes.  We have not had disclosure yet from the police so our lawyer does not know what charges we can fight and what we can't.  Has anyone else gone through similar events?  How did you manage?  Where are you now?  I live in Canada btw.