I don’t know what to do. My RSO husband and I are loosing our marriage. We’ve been together 19 years but only married for 6....after he offered he finally got me to marry him. I need a therapist but there’s no money for that. He finally got his disability and I’m now jobless because of all of this stress. He did it, he doesn’t lie about it, a sexual relationship with a 17 year old in the youth group he pastored. We had a great life feels like it’s over now. I don’t know how to keep going it’s so lonely. He’s so with drawn. He refuses to talk to me. He’s angry a lot. Should I let go?
I am able to see a counselor on a sliding fee...I just had to fill out the paperwork showing my income. I also attend S-anon meetings (sanon.org) which is for friends and families if sexaholics. I am learning to keep the focus on me while maintaining a healthy relationship with my fiancé who is incarcerated for his second offense. Blessings!