Hi everyone,

my name is Pilar. I just found this group. My boyfriend of two years as a sex offender. He's 24 years old. I knew this before we officially started dating. When he was 19 years old he had oral sex with a 15-year-old. The 15-year-old told her counselor during a routine session and her counselor was a mandated reporter. then he got taken to court and have a minimum 10 year probation and registry on the sex offender list. The oral sex was consensual and they had been talking for two weeks prior to meeting, the mayor on his 19th birthday. Up until this point, I've been able to kind of compartmentalized and make myself believe that his charge doesn't affect my life… But he does. Right now we are looking to move in an apartment And every place is turning us down because of his charge. He is a very low risk offender. I'm just very frustrated and fed up. I want us to have a good life and a fresh start but it's hard. He's literally not a threat to anyone. I'm just lost, frustrated, and sad. It's not fair that he (we) can't find a place to live.