So back in July, a 14 year old family member told me that my husband of 5 years touched her private areas. No penetration or anything like that. Just a graze. I do not condone what happened by any means. It actually bothers me. But since he's been in jail the last 5 months I've had plenty of time to decide if I wanted to stay by his side. Which I do want to stay by his side. He did admit to a situation that happened last year that was consensual. He knows he messed up. He's remorseful. And I'm not okay with it. What so ever. But he's my husband and I love him so much. He's currently out on bond and my family and so called friends have told me they want nothing to do with me because I speak with him. I feel so alone in this world and I just simply want someone to talk to that understands where I'm coming from. I'm not okay with the situation but I love him so much! I don't know what to do.
Somewhat similar situation, bf is no longer in jail but remains on the list for inappropriately touching his step dgt who was 12. This was 10 yrs ago. We've been together for 2 yrs. No family support. Sometimes I wonder what I am thinking.