Hi everyone. I am new to this club that none of us ever dreamed we'd be a part of. I caught my husband with materials 1 week ago. He and I both want to seek counseling separately but am unsure where to start. The concern is that the counselor would be mandated to report it. Is anyone aware of truly anonymous counseling? I'm in the stage of grief and rage and just unbearable hurt. I'm barely functioning. I hope to make our marriage work but I don't know if I'll be able to. Or if it's what I really want.