Hello Everyone! I first found out that my husband was accused of doing something to his stepdaughter from a previous marriage almost 2 years into our marriage. At the time, I had just found out that I was pregnant with our 2nd child. Though I as upset, I managed to keep myself calm for the sake of our unborn child. He was brought up on 4 charges of indecent liberties , with the court date being about 1.5 later. Thought the whole situation, I asked him why he did not feel the need to inform me of these allegations when we started dating, especially seeing as I shared dealing with molestation as a preteen. The recount that he gave about what occurred me at seemed to add up to me. On the official court, I attended a heart for myself what the charges/details were. He plead guilty with having to be on probation and register. He says that if he would have went to trial, he would be looking at jail time. About a month before the court date, I told him we needed to separate and he moved out. He seems to think that our family can work thru this, not impacting our boys. I on the other hand feel that if we remained together my boys and I would still be impacted! I'm a teacher and I don't see how it work. I also have trust issues with him, by not inform g me about his past. Not to mention, I spoke with someone who he told he did touch the girl. I still love him, but I know I gave to move on! Please shed some light. I feel like no one understands!!!!
I completely understand and know that you’re doing a great job on raising those kids. They will know how strong their mama is. Sending prayers and love your way. I have a 2 year old daughter that is my whole world and I know I’m the one that has to make decisions in her best interest and show her the way for it all.