I am new to this group. I have been married to my husband for 3 years and have known him for over 7 years. We just celebrated our anniversary and on that day I received 2 separate messages that people to used to work with received articles about my husbands past and my Facebook picture. I reached out to a friend and she said she also received one. We went to the police to report this Harrassment and turn in the letter of there was any fingerprints left. We try and live our lives as normal as we can. It has been a hard week. Today someone at my husbands work received one. At his point I feel completely violated. Someone is making it their life to make ours awful. We have a few people who it could be but can not prove it. They are all typed out and come from the same post office box. No return address and all computer printed labels. My fear is that everyone I work with will know. I left a job and friends 3 years ago because it was a toxic environment and they judged me for who my husband is. He is not that person they read about. I found out early on in our relationship and have talked about it and we have moved on. But this harassment and invasion of privacy and fact that this person is trying to ruin my life/our life is hard to deal with. Has anyone ever had this happen to them?
I had a letter go to my Executive Director and the board of directors at my last job with a copy of my husband’s charges. The letter hinted that I should not be trusted in my position based on my husband’s actions and suggested they may go to the newspapers. At the time I lived in a very rural community. I sent a letter to my ED and BOD addressing the concerns in the letter and suggested if they had any questions they could talk to my lawyer. I moved for another job 6-months later.