I have been dating a sex offender for about 6 yrs now. They had a hard time finding a job so i let them work with me on mine, i deliver to different places, one of the places i deliver to is a nursing home, im in there late at night when its pretty empty, only the front desk person working. Anyway while there for over a year he started having an affair with this front desk gal, she was married so they kept it mostly there, it was creepy that i walked by the rooms they were in having sex and never knew. He says its over now, but i found her panties in our new home, andi can hear a phone that hes hiding, again creepy. As a registered sex offender hes not suppose to have a phone the law doesnt know about is he? I cant find it no matter how hard i try, he says im crazy, hearing things, but i know what im hearing. This person in my opinion is lucky to have even found someone to be with, why would he throw it all away. He was raised rich, me not so much, i have a blue collar job, and when i found out about the affair was kicked out of this place, she didnt want to admit she knew him so she claimed i was harrassing her and took me to court for it! It was dropped because of evidence, but he still would not stand behind me in court. I know all this must make me seem stupid, but i had put so much into this relationship before i found out that now i feel like i got shawshanked! My christian belief is treat everyone the same, we all have a past and have made mistakes but what now? He says it happened because he was insecure? I just feel isolated, no friends because hes a sex offender and i feel like this girl, who is married, got away with destroying my reputation, and took that part of my income away, shes a very wealthy woman by the way. Just want an opinion, maybe a new friend?